A year ago we arrived to understand he had with 20 years ago..that is what he said As any wife would understand the anger and hurt that tends to follow yet I forgave him that he was emotionally involved with a previous work colleague!
underneath the understanding it absolutely was around and done with..which he said ended up being but evidently had not been and it is still taking place! This time around tho I had forgiven him several times, he still was not happy.. To top it all was he could not fault me and he just was not happy with me and was looking for happiness /contentment as I stated he has left and said it was over for good and eventually divorce вЂ¦Shock as even. He thought to the children for him and he wanted to end it that I did everything possible to save the marriage but it just was not enough.
he’d created a stress in the home that the children had noticed e.g.not being bothered to complete or get anywhere he hadвЂ¦how sad were my thoughts with me or as a family to a point that f.book was the only social life.
irrespective we attempted to continue just as if absolutely absolutely nothing had occurred but needed to acknowledge to myself that the trust had been goneвЂ¦.So my point is the fact that despite all of this going I say but its trueвЂ¦is it a midlife crises or am I just fooling myself on I still love himвЂ¦stupid. Continue Reading…